Alex Pam never said that people are "casually" quitting their jobs without trying. Pam is speaking from 30 years of experience as a woman who made a career for herself in the "traditional man-oriented" world of technology. She endured the bullshit and the sexual persecutions many women put up with back in the 70s and persevered. She did it and she certainly has the right to not listen to another woman bitching about the tech world of now not being kind to women. Quit your condescending preaching and stay in your own lane.